|Be willing to ask your husband for his forgiveness for actions where you tend to put 'self' before 'sacrifice.'|
Here are some ideas:
Just for the record, my husband and I are often apologizing to one another, because we do stupid, selfish, and rude stuff to each other all the time!
"Or how can you say to your brother, 'Let me remove the speck from your eye'; and look, a plank is in your own eye? Matthew 7:4
Boy is this a challenge or what? Regardless if it is unconsciously or not we are ALL guilty of doing this. You will be surprised be his reaction ;-)